Today was Grandad Ron’s funeral, which took place at Rawdon Crematorium. The immediate family, my Nan, Mum, Dad, brother and other Grandad, all went in a posh black car provided by the funeral director. There was a large crowd of people who turned out to say goodbye, family, and many friends. I started crying as soon as we got to the crematorium but that’s what the day is for, it’s good to get it out of the system.
The service was simple conducted by a female, Methodist vicar. Our family isn’t religious but Grandad was brought up in the Methodist church so it seemed fitting for the occasion. As we walked in “Claire de la Lune” played, and on the way out Glenn Miller’s “Moonlight Serenade” which were my Grandparent’s special tunes. My Dad stood up and said a few words about Grandad Ron, his love of cars, building radio-controlled aeroplanes and that he still loved to play table tennis at 78. I’m surprised Dad managed so well to give his speech as I could see he was struggling to keep from bursting into tears. My Dad and Grandad were more like best friends than father and son.
As we left the chapel the heavens opened and it rained hard. On the way back the road was flooded and the pavements were covered in piles of large hailstones!
We had the wake back at my Nan’s house, with food and refreshments, because so many people had travelled up. Like all good English “parties” there was plenty of tea on hand in the best bone china cups. There many members of the family that I haven’t see for 20 years, so lot’s of catching up to do. There wasn’t enough space in Nan’s bungalow to move around.
The sheer number of people who travelled a long way (some rather old) to come to the funeral was touching. My Nan received over 50 sympathy cards and lots of donations to the R.S.P.B. (Royal Society for the Protection of Birds). There was a donation box on the way out instead of flowers. Grandad’s ashes are going to sprinkled over the field where he used to fly his aeroplanes